Self realisation on a cold November day.

Self analysis is an ongoing personal adventure we all go through in our lives. I realised something quite straight forward today, in as far as when I was a kid, most of the time my Mum wasn't there, and Dad was always working. You see as teenagers we cope with this situation reasonably well, most of the time. Its only as we get older that the collateral damage comes to the for front of our relationships. So in essence, us 'latch key kids' tend to be more insecure in certain ways, for example the fundamental concept of affection, that 'touchy feely' part of our lives is even more critical to us than say a person whom has never been deprived of such an emotion. We also more sensitive to being ignored, or subject to a lack of consideration. So in that way again, were slightly damaged goods. All of this is generally not a big issue, insecurity is as it is, its just that once in a while it clouds our lives, and can make you depressed. So in conclusion, perhaps being aware of the problem, is half way towards resolving it?.